What Does An Anxiety Attack Feel Like?

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By DaNoblest

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Feeling Anxious

What is anxiety disorder? Usually when someone says they are anxious they mean excited or nervous. For me anxiety has a whole different meaning. When I am anxious it is like being trapped in a box that comes with a free panic attack. So what does an anxiety attack feel like?

Think of everything someone might do in a day such as going to work, driving, social gatherings, visiting friends, shopping etc… Sounds like a normal day right? Nothing to worry about here. Well now try to imagine that something as simple as talking on the phone for more than 10 minutes means a tiger will come attack you through the phone. With each minute that passes the danger increases. It will not take long for you to try to escape the danger. You might be thinking... “That’s totally illogical and ridiculous” and yes it is. Herein lays my problem though.

In high school I remember learning about adrenalin and the body's natural reaction to certain situations. “Flight or Fight” was the way of describing one such chemical reaction, a very basic survival instinct that causes one to flee or fight for survival when a perceived threat is nearby. In this heightened state all the senses often focus acutely on the perceived threat. To me this is what an “adrenalin rush” is. That state of danger where all the senses are very alert and I’m in a flight or fight mode. Adrenalin is not supposed to last much more than 20 minutes after the incident ends.


OK so what does this have to do with tigers and telephones? First consider dreams. Scary dreams can be pretty terrifying at times and the threat in them feels like it really exists but then you wake up and it is over. I have even known I was dreaming yet it still felt very real to me. Maybe you have experienced real feelings lingering even after you are awake and know what happened was nothing more than a dream. I know I have. But wait this doesn’t make sense… something that was not real caused some very real feelings, even with the knowledge that the incidents causing the feelings were not real! Well now I guess anyone who has dreamed before and had feelings linger after waking up now know it is possible for unreal things to cause real feelings. Dinosaur nightmares as a child come to mind as I write this.

So the tiger and the telephone? The tiger is not really waiting in the phone but for me the feeling of danger still is real and increases as time goes. One reason I use the tiger as an example is the fear will follow me at times almost like a tiger stalking prey. What I mean by this is once I get away from whatever caused the initial panic the feeling may still linger just like with dreams. For me though this feeling of danger sometimes continues to follow me for days. No matter what I do or where I go I will feel threatened. How could this be?

A good doctor once explained to me how for some people the body will continue to produce adrenalin after an incident for longer amounts of time than normal (He also made me aware of the tiger). Remember flight or fight? This continued production of adrenalin would explain why the fear lingers so long for me at times, or why something unreal like a dream can cause my feelings of danger to last for hours and even days. For me this is what I mean when I say I'm feeling anxious.

Here is a great medical study on anxiety disorders.

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The tiger comes with a bonus too! Not only do I get to worry about that feeling of danger because I can now be scared of anywhere I have seen the tiger before also! What a deal being scared to do something that might trigger a feeling of danger. If I do something like drive more than 5 minutes it causes me to become anxious. I now get to anticipate the anxiety before I even get in the car. This causes anxiety of its own and like a snowball rolling downhill the anxiety grows. It is very hard for me to do something that has caused me anxiety in the past for this reason.

I'm not afraid to drive it’s the fear of having a severe panic attack while driving that makes me nervous. I feel the same about many things most people do daily without a second thought. How many people go to the store or any other place worried about a tiger attacking them? I know I am not the only one with this problem. Not many people understand this condition though and I am in hopes that I have shed some light on the subject.

Hopefully now you wont have to ask yourself "What does an extreme anxiety attack feel like?" anymore. If you or someone you know suffer anxiety disorders look for some local anxiety treatment centers. Recently I have been seeking medical attention from a local anxiety clinic. It helps a bit especially after I got over the fear of the anxiety that medication causes me. Every day is still a challenge.

The simple things like going to public places that most people don’t even think twice about are small victories for me. For many people, writing something this personal for everyone to read would be very difficult. My problem can easily be perceived as a weakness and many may see it that way. I even feel that way sometimes. I win my personal battles though. I continue to try to make progress every day and I still will do things that scare me. I can battle the anxiety I feel from time to time when I need to go out. Progress can be slow but as long as I face my fears and continue to overcome them with Gods help this will not defeat me.


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Beberlee 15 months ago

This is awesome. I have anxiety. I know exactly how you feel..

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DaNoblest Hub Author 15 months ago

Thanks Beberlee. Anxiety can be a tough thing to deal with. I hope yours has been getting better =]

Jessica 15 months ago

Enlightening :)

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DaNoblest Hub Author 15 months ago

Thank you Jessica =]

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jamiecoins 14 months ago

great hub :)

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DaNoblest Hub Author 14 months ago

Thank you jamiecoins =]

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Motown2Chitown Level 5 Commenter 14 months ago

This is awesome! I suffer anxiety, panic attacks, and recurrent bouts of clinical depression. I recently tried to explain it to my husband. What you said here - " “That’s totally illogical and ridiculous” and yes it is. Herein lays my problem though." - is very similar to how I explained it. I said that even in the midst of the panic, my brain recognizes that I am behaving irrationally and that I have nothing to fear - but even while I understand this, I am unable to stop it. It's terrifying and debilitating. I've never heard anyone else say it, and it's not something I've shared with my doctor yet, but it's completely true!

GREAT HUB! Thank you!

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DaNoblest Hub Author 14 months ago

Thank you for the great comment! This is something people may not be able to understand unless they have gone through it. Having them argue with you just seems to make the anxiety worse. Who would chose to ever feel this way willingly though?

You are not alone. Many people suffer from this disability and have to manage it on a daily basis. I know how terrifying the thought of speaking to your doctor about this may seem. Please bring it up with them though. I spent many years trying to overcome this problem myself because everyone else had me convinced that I was making it all up in my own head, so I felt I should be able to un-think it all. As time went by I only became worse.

Seeking help from people who are familiar with this condition is one of the best things I have done.

I wish you the best of luck and hope you are able to begin overcoming some of your anxiety soon. It really is a day by day process. =]

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Motown2Chitown Level 5 Commenter 14 months ago

Well, I've been in and out of treatment, but it was in trying to help my husband understand my behavior that I was finally able to offer the concrete explanation that helped him to realize it's not bull, and it's not all in my head (although it is all in my head, actually...lol). I think knowing that my husband has a better understanding of what I go through has given me a bit of courage about seeking treatment again - and in being able to slowly formulate an understandable explanation for him has made me confident that I'll be more accurately and adequately treated moving forward. Again, though, it was a great hub.

And, thank you for the well wishes. I am always grateful for those! Wishing you the best as well!

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DaNoblest Hub Author 14 months ago

You are right that having someone close to you understanding what is wrong really does help. When no one seems to understand you feel much worse, then begin blaming yourself since it feels like it is only you with these problems.

Friends and family may have little idea how much courage and will power it takes to do a task that is otherwise simple for them. I have known doing a certain thing would cause me anxiety yet I still did it for the benefit of my friends. Anxiety doesn't always show on the outside so they think I am fine when really I am going crazy.

I am very happy your husband is beginning to understand your struggle a bit more. Having support from loved ones can make a world of difference.

The "great medical study" link I have above might be a good read for him and even yourself. I found it very enlightening.

Thank you as well for the good wishes and kind comments. You are right about never having too many. =]

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Avamum Level 1 Commenter 14 months ago

A solidly written and well laid out hub on a difficult topic!

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Motown2Chitown Level 5 Commenter 14 months ago

I haven't taken a look at the study link yet, but I certainly intend to. And you're absolutely right! Because we "look" fine, they assume we "are" fine. But, they have no idea of the chaos that's happening inside our minds. Once I was able to help him understand that, he really began to think differently about my behavior. There was the recognition that what is easy, simple, rational behavior for the average person isn't easy or simple for someone in the grip of panic/anxiety. It was a breakthrough for US, for sure. But, it was a breakthrough for me too in that (just like you said) I suddenly stopped blaming myself or wondering what I was doing wrong. I stopped condemning myself for not being "normal" and began to accept that I suffer from a disorder that I need medical attention and possibly medication to control. One of the greatest feelings of liberation I have ever experienced! :)

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DaNoblest Hub Author 14 months ago

@Avamum Thank you I am glad you enjoyed my hub. =]

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DaNoblest Hub Author 14 months ago

@Motown2Chitown I almost broke down and cried the first time I met someone who really understood what was happening to me. Yes it really is a huge relief have someone believe what you are saying.

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Motown2Chitown Level 5 Commenter 14 months ago

Amen, sister! And, when I saw the light of understanding in my husband's eyes, I actually DID break down and cry. How very human we are, and how very grateful I am. I love emotions and feelings and all that jazz...it's what makes us human and what makes us beautiful.

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ripplemaker Level 6 Commenter 14 months ago

I can remember the years in my life when I was always feeling anxious. It is a relief that I am now free from it and can live a happier life.

Congratulations on your hubnuggets nomination: http://hubpages.com/_hubnuggets6/hub/Shadiws-if-th Do read and vote and promote!

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DaNoblest Hub Author 14 months ago

@Motown2Chitown Yes human emotion can be wonderful when it not used spitefully. I am not offended, although calling me brother might be more appropriate. =P

@ripplemaker I am happy that you were able to overcome your anxiety. I'm sure you really do feel free now. I know I would. Thank you for stopping by to check out my hub. =]

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Motown2Chitown Level 5 Commenter 14 months ago

Hmmm, did I mention that I suffer from foot in mouth disease. I'll admit that I've read the hub and followed the comments, but haven't yet checked out the brilliant author's profile. Oops. :)

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DaNoblest Hub Author 14 months ago

Nothing to worry about. It is a mistake easily made here on the net. I'm sure my cat picture doesn't help lol.

Diana 14 months ago

I really enjoyed reading this. While reading my anxiety level was really high and it made me think about how my anxiety is not always triggered by something specific like going out. Although I do have that happen. But loud sounds, my crying baby, or my phone ringing can just set me off. I wish I knew what causes my anxiety and what I could do to calm it. Thanks for a nice post! :)

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DaNoblest Hub Author 14 months ago

Thank you! I am glad you enjoyed reading this. It can be tough to know what causes the anxiety since it always seems so random. Loud sounds definitely bug me sometimes. I hope you are able to overcome your anxiety eventually. =]

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Pamela99 Level 7 Commenter 14 months ago

this is a very good hub an anxiety attacks. My brother has this problem and it sure isn't pleasant. Congrats on you nomination.

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DaNoblest Hub Author 14 months ago

Thank you Pamela99. Many suffer from anxiety for years before they even realize that is why they feel how they do. It is not fun to feel anxious that is for sure!

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toknowinfo Level 3 Commenter 14 months ago

Congratulations on your hubnuggets nomination. It is well deserved, as this is an excellent and very helpful hub. Through your experience, you are able to let others know they are not alone in what they feel. Your hub is a valuable source and I hope you continue to share your thoughts. Rated up and awesome.

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DaNoblest Hub Author 13 months ago

Thank you very much toknowinfo!

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edmondsyd 12 months ago

I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. I too suffer from anxiety and panic attacks, and have done research for years. Try essential oil of lavender, chamomile or kava kava tea if you do not want to take the current medications prescribed for anxiety. Limit your caffiene intake because it exacerbates the problem. Good luck sweetheart and thanks for the honest view on this problem!

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DaNoblest Hub Author 12 months ago

Thank you edmondsyd. It can be such a limiting condition. You are right about caffeine. I had to stop drinking coffee altogether. ='[

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OnlyOneKnows67 3 months ago

very nice article...I just joined and will be adding my own personal experiences with anxiety, panic attacks and the problems of uknowing medical professionals

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meloncauli Level 3 Commenter 5 weeks ago

Great hub. I enjoyed reading it. Voted up.

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